Seniors and Second Graders: Pen Pals with Purpose

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Davidson County Senior Services is pairing wisdom with wonder through a their pen pal program connecting older adults with second graders at Reeds Elementary School. The initiative hopes to bridge generations with the timeless power of the written word—handwritten letters that build friendships, spark imagination, and remind both age groups that their voices matter.

For seniors, writing to a child provides more than just a pleasant pastime. Studies show that intergenerational connections can improve mental health, reduce loneliness, and even help keep memory sharp. A letter from a curious eight-year-old can brighten a senior’s day in ways no smartphone notification ever could.

For second graders, pen pal letters create excitement about reading and writing, all while showing them the value of slowing down in a digital world. The act of waiting for a reply builds patience, while opening an envelope addressed just to them reinforces a sense of belonging. Teachers say it boosts literacy, but more importantly, it nurtures empathy.

“There’s something powerful about kids learning that elders have stories worth telling—and seniors realizing their life lessons are still valuable to the next generation,” a Senior Services representative stated in a FB invitation.

The program is simple: pen pals exchange one letter each month from October through May. Some write about favorite childhood games, while others swap drawings or share recipes. The magic lies not in perfect penmanship, but in connection—proof that joy, curiosity, and kindness travel easily across generations.

Older adults who would like to participate can contact Anna Claire Kelly at 336-242-2949 or anna.kelly@davidsoncountync.gov for more information.