Fatherhood: Breaking Generational Curses
Cotton alongside with his children Bre'Ashia (21), Brielle (11), and Braylan (3)
For Fatherhood Rayshaan Cotton, the essence of being a father goes far beyond simply being present. It's a powerful commitment to intentional love, guidance, and, crucially, ensuring his children are not burdened by the mistakes of his past. "What fatherhood means the world to me," Cotton shares, "it's more than just being present and being intentional with your children, you have to show nothing but love." This profound perspective shapes his every interaction with his three children: Bre'Ashia (21), Brielle (11), and Braylan (3).
Cotton and son Braylan Take a moment to pose during their boxing match.
One of Cotton's deepest motivations as a father is to actively break generational curses. He firmly believes his children should not be held "accountable for his past mistakes." This isn't just about avoiding negative patterns; it's about consciously building a foundation of strength, opportunity, and emotional freedom for his kids. His own childhood challenge of overcoming the fear of not making his parents proud likely instilled in him a deep empathy and a drive to ensure his children feel secure in their own potential, unhampered by inherited anxieties.
Leadership Beyond the Home
Cotton's dedication to his family and community is clearly reflected in his professional life. As an Operations Manager at Providence Transportation for five years, he thrives on helping others and embracing leadership. These aren't just job duties; they're extensions of his personal values. He enjoys empowering his colleagues, guiding them, and contributing to their success—qualities he undoubtedly brings to his parenting as well.
His commitment to positive change extends to civic engagement. In 2015, Cotton ran for city council to address a disconnect he felt within his generation regarding participation in local government. This active involvement showcases his belief in making a tangible difference, fostering a sense of civic responsibility that he models for his children.
Entrepreneurship and Community Spirit
Cotton stands alongside business partner Henry Atkins cooking hotdogs at a Cory Holt Foundation event
Beyond his managerial role, Cotton is also the proud owner of Hibachi Me, a business venture he enjoys, further enabling him to give back to the community. Whether through his work at Providence, his entrepreneurial endeavors, or his past political aspirations, Cotton consistently demonstrates a multifaceted approach to life, rooted in service and positive contribution.
He attributes much of his character and drive to significant influences in his life, including his father and stepfather, as well as Anthony (Jessie) Bowens. These mentors have undoubtedly shaped his strong values and his unwavering commitment to his family and community.
For Fatherhood Cotton, being a father is a continuous journey of growth, marked by purpose, love, and a profound desire to pave a clearer, unburdened path for his children, ensuring they inherit strength, not struggle.
Cotton's journey hasn't been without its hurdles. He openly acknowledges that his hardest challenge as a child was overcoming the fear of not making his parents proud. This formative experience likely instilled in him a strong sense of responsibility and a drive to excel, qualities that are evident in his adult life as a father, professional, and community member.
Cotton stands alongside his mother, guiding his mother to community event.
He credits several individuals as significant influences in his life, shaping the man he is today. His father and stepfather provided foundational guidance and support. He also highlights Anthony (Jessie) Bowens as a key figure who has impacted him profoundly. These mentors have undoubtedly contributed to his strong character and his multifaceted approach to life, emphasizing service, leadership, and a deep love for family.
Ultimately, for Fatherhood Cotton, the essence of being a father is about paving a clearer, unburdened path for his children, demonstrating love through action, and leading by example in every facet of his life. It's a continuous journey of growth, marked by a profound sense of purpose and a commitment to building a better future for his family and his community.
